So my little confusion with relationships and dating continues.
I continue to talk to and make plans with P. I do like him. He is funny, and a great competitor, and charming. I've discovered a few odd things about him, like his love of ballroom dancing, and his tendency to criticize the designers in "The Runway" show that we both adore.
We chat on the phone during the week, and IM sometimes….
All seems to be going along swimmingly, and usually if a man wants to be "just friends" they don't continue to make long term plans with a person, do they? and lots of plans? we'll see….
I had an 8 yr relationship, then a nice long dry spell, then Africa….where you are either with someone, or not….no dating as you already essentially live together, unless you step out with the local population (which is not recommended in my book as the inequities make for wierd relationships…people looking for green cards etc…)
And now this. I am entirely confused. But, I suppose the best thing is to take a wait and see approach. I am a bit more of an implusive person…I get the feeling P is being normal….taking time to get to know me before making a decision, whereas I tend to make a decision and then get to know someone….I guess I just don't want to waste my time if nothing is going to come of this. wierd.